THE WILL OF GOD IN MARRIAGE..... Serious... must read!

This edition is coming as a result of requests and questions encountered both in the last edition of "This is SEPTEMBER" and OUR WEEKLY G3 (Guys, Girls with God) MEETING.
I will be straight and grave in my points. Please let’s stay together now

1.     God has a will in marriage, irrespective of all the preaching and life experiences people have had, i want you to understand that God made a wife for Adam. When he fell, the man said "it was the woman you gave me...."!!! some preachers have said it was since then that God decided "He won’t give man a wife again ... so he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing" hmmm well I love these preachers and I'm not here to criticize them but i have never seen this KIND of verse in the scriptures. Please let’s be careful to put things in the whole counsel of God when making a point!

BEFORE LASHING OUT AT ME, LETS LOOK AT 2 SCRIPTURES
Prov 19:14
A father can give his sons homes and riches, but only the Lord can give them understanding wives. TLB
Prov 18:22
A man's greatest treasure
is his wife- she is a gift from the Lord. CEV
Prov 18:22
Find a wife and you find a good thing; it shows that the Lord is good to you.GNT

Can you see that even if it looks like your wisdom has given you an understanding wife; never forget that IT SHOWS THAT GOD HAS BEEN GOOD TO YOU! ha!


THE BALANCE.....
Does it mean that we must all see a vision or have a dream about the lady? or brother... NO!
Does this mean somebody must prophesy our husband or wives to us? NO!
OK WHAT DOES IT MEAN;
Everybody has a way God speaks and communicates His will to them. for some you just discover an undying desire, for some it comes through godly counsel for some it prophesy with numerous confirmation.....THIS IS THE BOTTOM LINE, YOU MUST TRUST GOD FOR HIS WILL, YOU MUST TRUST GOD TO HELP YOU, YOU MUST TRUST GOD TO DIRECT YOU, YOU MUST SEEK GODS FAVOUR (some brothers have seen beautiful ladies and have been bounced back because they felt they are spiritual, handsome etc for some you will literally see it in their proposal likewise sisters too) God leads people, guides them, DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY TO THEIR PARTNERS AND WE ALL MUST TRUST IN HIS HELP AND FAVOUR. I know there are several schools of thought and experiences which you might have come across, I SUBMIT TO YOU WITH ALL AUTHORITY THAT GOD IS INTERESTED IN HELPING YOU IN EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE- MARRIAGE INCLUSIVE!!!!
Till we meet again God bless!